Handling Conflict
Discipleship S.T.E.P.S.: Practice
Scripture: Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. – Matthew 18:15 (KJV)
Conflict is inevitable in a broken world, but how we handle it reveals the maturity of our faith. Jesus provides a clear, courageous path to reconciliation: the private conversation. Avoiding confrontation or spreading bitterness only fuels the division, whereas seeking peace shows a commitment to the unity of the body of Christ. Reconciliation is the goal, and it requires both the humility to address a fault and the grace to forgive when it is resolved.
Ask yourself today if there is a strained relationship in your life that requires a step toward restoration. Swift honest and private communication can prevent a small misunderstanding from becoming a wall of resentment. By choosing to ‘gain’ your brother rather than ‘win’ an argument you reflect the heart of a Savior who went to great lengths to reconcile us to Himself.
Prompt: How quickly do you seek reconciliation when there is an offense between you and another believer?
Action Step: The Practice of Christian living involves handling conflict biblically to maintain unity in the body.
Next Step: Pray for someone who has offended you and ask God for the grace to forgive them.